No Filter

This is a popular saying I’ve been hearing for quite awhile. What does the term really mean? Basically, it’s in reference to when you say what’s on your mind without any consideration of who you’re speaking to, the situation you’re in, or circumstance; whether it’s blunt, rude, mean, or inappropriate. I know we all have that one friend or family member that we “just know is going to say whatever comes out of their mouth” and we kind of brace ourselves for what they are about to say next! It can also have multiple meanings depending on how you’re using the phrase. I’ve seen people post pictures and caption it, “no filter” which they are basically telling you that, “this picture is unedited or untouched”. They want you to know that they look good in a photo without having to alter it.

Having “no filter” when speaking to someone or posting online can often lead to some negative backlash, disapproval, or repercussions. I know what you’re thinking, “why should I care about what other people think about what comes out of my mouth?” Have you seen all of the drama where people have posted some really crude, mean, or offensive remarks on social media? Their tweets or posts could’ve been from years ago, but the things they said or posted came back to haunt them! You see all of these people publicly apologizing for saying ignorant, hurtful things and some people even get “cancelled” or fired for it!

People really don’t have a clue how their words can be hurtful, upsetting, offensive, or even disrespectful to someone. It can be dangerous especially if you are around people who have no tolerance for it. Why is it so important to have a filter? Because it shows your restraint, respect, and acknowledgement of the person or situation. Words can be hurtful and it’s important to be careful what we say to someone. Not everyone wants to hear your unfiltered, not-well-thought-out remarks. Now there is a big difference between having “no filter” and giving constructive criticism or feedback. The latter are thought out, pays attention to detail, and gives feedback that in turn can build someone up without leaving them feeling offended or upset. Have you ever heard of the term “be careful what you say?” It’s imperative that you choose your words carefully because you never know if you are one word away from destruction! Like a wise man once said, “Your words can be powerful, they can hurt or uplift, so think before you speak as every word you say counts!”